Things That Make You Go 'Grr'

Usually I'm a very understanding person. I really am. I try not to put pressure on anyone, especially when fandom related, because seriously why should any of us be bashed on for a hobby? I've had enough Bad-Fandom-Experiences to last me a lifetime and I don't want to anyone to go through that. Hell, anyone who was following my Harry Potter fan fiction probably remembers the whole bitchy-psychotic-stalker-feedbacker that literally drove me to give up fan fiction for a few years due to sheer and utter loathing of it. 

But - and yes, there's going to be a but here - BUT there are some things that I've been faced with lately in both fandom and reality that really cheese me off.

First of all...

( This may be tl;dr for some... )

Things That Make You Go 'Grr'

Usually I'm a very understanding person. I really am. I try not to put pressure on anyone, especially when fandom related, because seriously why should any of us be bashed on for a hobby? I've had enough Bad-Fandom-Experiences to last me a lifetime and I don't want to anyone to go through that. Hell, anyone who was following my Harry Potter fan fiction probably remembers the whole bitchy-psychotic-stalker-feedbacker that literally drove me to give up fan fiction for a few years due to sheer and utter loathing of it. 

But - and yes, there's going to be a but here - BUT there are some things that I've been faced with lately in both fandom and reality that really cheese me off.

First of all...

( This may be tl;dr for some... )